Hekewika what you described is exactly the way the brain and memory work. In order for us to 'forget' something the brain actively chooses to remember the thing we want to forget or ignore and then puts a mental filter in place in order to block it out. This is why if I tell you "not to do something" you are more likely to do it, if I order you to not think of the pink elephant all you can now think about are pink elephants. The mental filter that is supposed to act as a barrier so we don't want/crave/remember something is new to us. So it is energetically costly. This means that when we are low, tired or distracted we are unlikely to have enough energy to support it and then the thing we have put in this mental cabinet comes popping out at us.
The only reliable way to overcome a situation like this is to substitute something else for it. Occasionally I do 72 hour fasts. It is a little hellish as I eat nothing in those 72 hours. =Halfway through I could happily eat my partner and my dog.
The way I get round it is I set myself up for success: I make sure I have no new or pressing work to do in that time period, so I am cruising everything. I also have my Netflix playlist handy and in order. I don't have to go looking for stuff to watch it is all there, already picked and in place. This distracts me and I get through the 72 hours without breaking my fast.
You can, in your case, pick an activity you like or, even, substitute another food for what you are trying to avoid. Say carrots instead of sugary treats.
You need to experiment and see what works best for you.
I hope this is of help.
The only reliable way to overcome a situation like this is to substitute something else for it. Occasionally I do 72 hour fasts. It is a little hellish as I eat nothing in those 72 hours. =Halfway through I could happily eat my partner and my dog.

You can, in your case, pick an activity you like or, even, substitute another food for what you are trying to avoid. Say carrots instead of sugary treats.

I hope this is of help.
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